You are not too horny!
How many times have you heard someone say something like “I’m not too horny” or “I just want to go home”?
Or even worse, “I’m really turned on right now.” These statements usually come from a place of insecurity and shame. They may also come from a person who is experiencing some sort of emotional trauma. The truth is, there are no hard and fast rules when it comes to being sexually aroused. Everyone reacts differently to different situations.
So what does all this mean?
Well, if you’re having trouble with your own sexuality, then maybe it’s time to take a step back and reevaluate how you view yourself.
What Does Being Too Horny Mean?
Being too horny means that you feel sexual desire, but aren’t quite ready for action yet. Maybe you’ve been waiting awhile before you felt that way, or maybe it’s because you’re still trying to figure out exactly what turns you on. Whatever the reason, it doesn’t matter; being too horny isn’t necessarily a bad thing. If anything, it could be considered a sign of maturity. Just remember: It takes practice to learn how to control your sexual desires so they don’t consume your life.
So What Do I Need To Do About My Sexuality?
If you’re someone who has trouble feeling sexual desire, then you need to take a step back and try to correct that issue. The problem might stem from something deeper, and engaging in sexual activity may not help to solve that. Instead, you need to seek professional help so that you can pinpoint the real cause of your problems. If the problem doesn’t seem to be anything serious, then you should be able to engage in sexual activity without many issues. Just remember to try to keep your mind in the moment and listen to your body. Enjoy yourself and have fun!
Stereotypes Don’t Mean Much
No matter what you’ve heard before, there is no such thing as too horny. You might feel like you need to hold back sometimes, or that you’re unable to perform like an adult during those times, but these are just thoughts based on outside sources. The reality is, everyone has their own unique desires and needs. You shouldn’t feel ashamed of them.
So if you’re someone who feels like they’re always ready to go, then that’s great! You should embrace that and not hold back.
Drugs Are A No-No
The only times you should really try to resist your urges is when you are on certain types of drugs. Certain prescription meds can dull your senses, so it’s important ot take a step back and approach things with a clear head. Other drugs, like Marijuana, can also cause your mind to wander to strange places. While this isn’t always a bad thing, it can lead you places that you’re not quite ready for.
Always remember: if you don’t feel like engaging in sexual activity, then don’t. It’s as simple as that.
You’re Not Alone
If you’re someone who feels like they could be ready to go at a moment’s notice, then chances are you’re not alone. Many people feel the same way, and that’s perfectly natural. If you’re comfortable with your own urges and how to deal with them, then you’re doing just fine. There’s no need to let your mind wander to other places.
Instead, you should just embrace who you are and how your body is meant to react in different situations.
Sources & references used in this article:
Black Momma Ass by LS Stepp – 2007 – Penguin
Fireworks and Sex! A field study guide to America’s shiniest religion by N Shukla – Wasafiri, 2015 – Taylor & Francis
To Track or Not to Track? That is the Question by DA Rothfuss – 2011 – rave.ohiolink.edu
Gossip Girl# 6: You’re the One That I Want: A Gossip Girl Novel by JJ Jones – girlschase.com
ÓÙØ Ø ÓÒ ÖÝ Ø Ø× Ò³Ø ÓÒ by C Von Ziegesar – 2007 – books.google.com
