Hypnosis Isn’t the Only Way to Have a Hands-Free Orgasm
I am not here to debate whether or not hypnosis is effective in inducing orgasms. I’m sure there are many women out there who would love to experience those magical feelings without having to actually take their minds off of themselves during sexual activity.
However, it’s important that we all realize that while hypnotherapy may indeed produce these amazing results, it does so with significant risks involved.
The first risk is that hypnosis can sometimes cause problems with memory. While the brain does indeed change its structure and function during hypnosis sessions, it is possible for memories to become altered as well.
Many people report experiencing strange dreams after being hypnotized; some even believe they were abducted by aliens! Additionally, some people have reported becoming paranoid or delusional during hypnotherapy sessions due to the fact that they no longer remember certain aspects of their pasts.
Another potential problem with hypnosis is that it can cause the person under hypnosis to lose control over their bodily functions. Some people have experienced symptoms such as vomiting blood, diarrhea, dizziness, loss of balance and even death.
There are also cases where people have been known to go into a trance-like state and commit suicide because of the effects of hypnosis on their minds.
If you expect to experience an easy way to have an hands-free or even a hands-full-of-orgasm, please DON’T attempt this method.
You should always decide whether hypnotherapy is right for you after carefully considering all of the risks involved.
And if you’re looking for some other way to experience pleasure, there are many other ways. You can always try a vibrator or even a Fleshlight (a flashlight-shaped device that is designed to mimic the sensation of penetration).
Those are just a couple of ideas, but remember that whatever you use should be used properly.
Here are some general tips that apply to many types of sexual activity:
Foreplay is very important. Whether or not you and your partner are having PIV (penis in vaginal) or PVP (penis in vulva), you and your partner should take the time to arouse one another.
You should never do anything that you don’t want to do. While it might seems strange, some people actually feel obligated to continue with sexual activities that make them uncomfortable.
You should never do anything that your partner is unwilling to do.
You should never do anything that causes pain.
You should always listen to your body. If something is painful, don’t do it again.
You should communicate openly with your partner about what you like and don’t like.
Some people also find it helpful to give their partner verbal commands such as “faster” or “slower”.
Don’t be afraid to use lube.
If you are engaging in PIV or PVP, you should make sure that your nails aren’t too long, to avoid causing your partner’s skin to break and making it more susceptible to STIs.
Also – while using a latex glove can be fun, it can also pose the risk of tearing if used roughly, so you may want to stick with other options as well.
If you’re engaging in PIV or PVP, you should make sure that the surface that you’re engaging in this activity on is safe for such activities. Carpet isn’t exactly ideal, so try to find a cushioned surface with a surface that isn’t going to cause your back or legs to get scraped up.
Again, listen to your body and don’t do anything that causes pain.
You should also avoid engaging in sexual activity when you have open wounds as there is the risk of acquiring an infection.
If you’re engaging in PIV, it is possible for the man to pull out too early and cause the woman to miss her chance of having an orgasms during that session. For this reason, it can be helpful for the couple to agree on a code word that means that the man needs to stop thrusting immediately.
This way, the man can continue to thrust for a little while and build the woman to climax, then once the code word is said, he stops immediately. Once the woman’s reached her climax and finished, the man can then go back to building his own pleasure.
You can use whatever code word you want, but some common ones are “sailor” and “butterfly”.
If you’re engaging in PIV and want the man to finish inside of you, there are a few different options available. The first is to simply not use a contraceptive and take the risk that you or your partner could get pregnant.
Or you could use withdrawal, which is when the man removes his member from your partner before the climax and ejaculates alone somewhere. This prevents pregnancy, but doesn’t protect against STIs.
Finally, you have the option of using condoms or female condoms, which can only be used for PIV, as they are placed on the member prior to penetration and prevent the spread of STIs.
Another fun activity that you can engage in is dirty talk.
This can be used to enhance many different types of sexual encounters, however it’s usually mentioned in reference to PIV.
Dirty talk involves saying explicit things that you’d like done to you during the act.
For example, if you wanted the guy to go harder or faster, you could tell him to “f*ck you harder,” or “punch me with your d*ick.”
Most guys are apprehensive about this at first, but most women really get off on it.
If you’re interested, the best time to use it is when you’re either close to finishing or already having an orgy.
For example, if you wanted him to go harder, you could say something like “come on baby, let me feel that d*ck.”
Most women consider this to be a major turn-on.
Never use dirty talk in the middle of PIV, as this could either confuse your partner or straight up weird them out.
Another activity you can engage in is role playing.
The most common role playing scenario involves one partner pretending to be somebody else during the act.
For example, you could pretend that your partner is your high school teacher or even someone you find unattractive.
This is said to enhance the sexual experience, and it may allow you to try things that you wouldn’t do in real life.
This one is a bit more risky, as some people could find it offensive.
Does this mean that you’re a teacher who’s had an inappropriate relationship with a student?
Whatever the scenario, there’s a lot of room for a lot of fun things.
As with dirty talk, make sure to not bring up these type of scenarios in the middle of PIV.
You want to save these for after playtime when everyone has had their fun.
You could also try watching some adult films to add a little something extra to the experience.
Most people view this as a guy’s way of getting off, but women can also enjoy these videos.
There are so many different types of adult content that you’re bound to find something that you like.
The most common type of adult content is “Porn,” which involves real people engaging in sexual activity.
You may also see “Cam,” which involves individuals filming themselves having sexual encounters, or even novelties, such as incest role-play.
When it comes to adult content, anything goes.
Including but not limited to: orgies, group sexual encounters, gangbangs, one on one encounters, domination and submission, and more.
Adult films are a great way to enhance any sexual encounter.
You could also try to use some toys.
There are vibrators, dildos, and other types of toys that can be used in addition to your partner’s body.
Dildos are typically used for female pleasure, but you could try using one anally on your partner or use a glass dildo vaginally.
Vibrators also come in many different shapes and sizes.
Some are even remote controlled, meaning that your partner could control it at their own will.
You don’t have to stick with traditional toys, however.
You could try using a Fleshlight or masturbator, which is typically shaped like a real woman’s genitals and can come in many different styles.
They are designed to feel and look as realistic as possible.
There are also machines that can simulate different sexual encounters.
You could try hooking yourself up to the machine and have it stimulate you in a plethora of different ways.
Of course, you could just use your hand.
There’s something to be said about the simplicity of hand fun.
A lot of people start out by masturbating and then eventually move on to other things.
As I stated earlier, there’s nothing wrong with using your hands.
Many people use toys to help enhance their sexual pleasure.
When using toys, make sure to use proper safety measures.
For example, if you’re using a vibrator or dildo, make sure that it has a flared base or a suction cup so that it doesn’t get lost up inside of your rectum or vaginal canal.
Also, only use water-based lubricants with latex condoms.
Most important of all, make sure to clean and sanitize your toys after each and every use.
The last thing that you want is to get a nasty infection from using a dirty toy.
From a legal standpoint, there are no laws against possessing an obscene video, DVD, or movie in which feature adult content.
However, some businesses have been known to confiscate these videos in an attempt to discourage such material.
Most of these videos are just considered to be softcore, and there is no definitive law against them.
However, most X-rated videos that you see at Adult Bookstores and rental stores are technically illegal since they feature hardcore sexual content.
This is a fine line since the distinction between softcore and hardcore is often vague and could be argued either way.
If you are under the age of 18, then it is illegal for you to be buying and/or watching adult videos.
If you are over the age of 18, then there are no specific laws that forbid you from watching and purchasing these videos.
As far as your local neighborhood video store is concerned, it’s their own discretion on whether or not to even carry such material in the first place.
Most of them do since there isn’t a law that forbids them to.
If they do carry such videos, then you still have to be careful about being overcharged due to the perceived illegality of the content.
The clerk might try to charge you an inflated price since he or she could claim that they are losing money because of their illegal material.
That’s just how some businesses work.
If you don’t want to take that chance, then your best bet would be to order such videos from a mail-order company. (Of course, there is always the possibility that the postal service could misinterpret the content of such material, and you could get into trouble.)
You can also try video stores that are located in less civilized areas where there are far less questions asked.
Both of these approaches could be time consuming and expensive, but they would guarantee your privacy.
Most likely, you won’t get into trouble unless you are extremely obvious about what you are doing. (Like watching a video in public or something similar to that.)
Just be careful and keep your anonymity, and you should be fine.
The movie “Showgirls” starring Elizabeth Berkley is one of the most popular movies at the theater right now.
It is about a young lady who is trying to make it as a dancer in Las Vegas.
She encounters a whole series of trials and tribulations along the way.
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