Does Anal Hurt?
What to Know for Your First Time
Anal play is not just another sexual activity. It’s a very intimate act which involves many nerves and blood vessels. If done improperly it can cause damage to your body or even death if you don’t take proper precautions.
The first time I ever had penetrative vaginal penetration was when my boyfriend and I were dating. We’d been together for two years before that, but there was always a little something missing between us. When we finally did have penetrative vaginal contact, it felt like everything clicked into place.
It wasn’t until after we broke up that I started having trouble with him again because of it. I didn’t want to hurt him, so I tried to make things better by being nice. But it never worked.
I think what happened was that my body went into shock from all the excitement of the first time and I got too excited and then he pushed me too far…and then we kissed. That’s when it happened! My mind couldn’t believe what had just occurred; my body could barely handle it anymore and I lost control completely.
I blacked out, falling onto the floor.
Hi Peeps, my name is Dani and this is my story of how I went from a mild mannered blogger to a mind controlled freak. I was just your average girl living in the suburbs; going to school and working as a waitress to pay for it. I had a cute boyfriend who I’d been dating for about a year when he finally popped the question.
You can’t do this to people. I didn’t do anything to you! It’s not my fault you have no willpower!”
“No, it’s yours. You’re supposed to be smart about these things. Now look at yourself, you’re a wreck!
If you would have just used some self-control like I told you, none of this would have happened,” he says in a lecturing tone.
Suddenly, the captain makes an announcement over the loud speaker. “Ladies and gentlemen, we are preparing for takeoff. Fasten your seatbelts and no smoking until we reach altitude.”
“Now you listen to me,” says Mom. “You need to calm down right now. You can’t go blaming other people for your own mistakes.
If you had just used a little restraint, this never would have happened.”
“It was an accident!
How was I supposed to know my powers could do that?”
I wake up in a cold sweat. I have this dream every night now and sometimes it’s even worse. I change into my uniform and head off to my new job as a flight attendant. This is the plan: get enough money and then move on. I don’t know where I’ll go, but anywhere has to be better than here.
I didn’t know I could do that. I thought I was just an average girl with a quirk, but now I realize I’m much more than that. If I’m strong enough to lift someone off the ground and through a wall, there’s no telling what else I could accomplish.
Maybe I could even learn how to control it.
I catch him before he falls and put him back on his feet.
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