What is quiet bpd?
The term “quiet” describes someone with borderline personality disorder. A person suffering from this condition may not show any outward signs of emotion or distress, but they are still capable of experiencing intense emotions such as anger, fear, depression and guilt. They have difficulty expressing their feelings verbally due to their inability to do so effectively.
A quiet person’s life revolves around themselves and their own thoughts. They tend to avoid social situations where they might feel uncomfortable, which makes them socially isolated. Their behavior is often inconsistent and erratic, making it difficult for others to relate to them. These individuals are often manipulative and self-serving at times; however, they are unable to form genuine intimate relationships because of their extreme isolationism.
How does quiet bpd affect relationships?
Relationships between quiet bpd individuals are usually strained. They lack emotional expression and are incapable of being vulnerable. Their need for control over their environment causes conflict in their relationship. Relationships with these individuals are often characterized by mistrust, manipulation, blame shifting and backstabbing. When they do interact with others, they tend to use a variety of tactics to manipulate them into doing what they want.
How to deal with a quiet bpd individual?
The best way to deal with a quiet borderline personality disorder individual is to be firm yet calm in your approach. Remain as consistent as possible and avoid engaging in power struggles. It is important to remember that they are not going to change, so it is best to set boundaries and enforce them consistently.
What are the causes of quiet bpd?
It is believed that childhood trauma or abuse can lead to the development of borderline personality disorder. When these individuals are young, they lack social skills which make it challenging for them to form intimate relationships. This behavior usually begins in early adulthood and can last a lifetime. The core characteristics of quiet bpd include emotional instability, fear of abandonment, intense mood swings, and impulsiveness.
What are the signs of quiet bpd?
Signs of quiet bpd typically begin in early adulthood. These individuals usually have a history of failed relationships and an inability to maintain long-term friendships. They have an extreme fear of rejection and will do their best to avoid potential threats to their ego. Quiet borderlines are also impulsive and have a low self-esteem, which makes them susceptible to substance abuse.
What are the types of quiet bpdis?
There are two types of quiet borderlines. These are the submissive and the clingy quiet borderlines. Submissive quiet borderlines desire obedience and loyalty from others. They tend to be manipulative and will do their best to avoid conflict. They are also excessively apologetic and will avoid making eye contact with others. Clingy quiet borderlines crave attention and affection, but they are unwilling to share personal information about themselves. They are going to try their best to become overly involved in another person’s life. They require a lot of attention and reassurance, which makes them dependent on others.
How is quiet bpd treated?
There is currently no cure for borderline personality disorder. Treatment usually involves a combination of talk therapy and prescription medication. It can take months or even years before a patient begins to see any signs of improvement. During this time, the patient is expected to make regular visits to their psychiatrist and discuss their ongoing struggles with mental health.
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