A Beginner’s Guide to Anal Fisting

Anal Fisting: How Does It Feel?

The first time I experienced anally penetrating someone was with my boyfriend when we were dating. We had just broken up and we both felt very sad and lonely. We went out one night after work to get drunk together and ended up going back home where we started kissing each other again. At some point during the evening, he put his finger inside me while I was still in a state of shock from being dumped.

I didn’t want him to stop because I wanted to have feelings of love and affection for him again. After having done that, I was so turned on that I couldn’t control myself anymore and came all over his hand. My boyfriend looked at me in disbelief and asked if he did something wrong or what happened. When I told him everything, he was shocked too.

He wasn’t angry; rather he seemed disappointed in himself for not knowing how to handle such situations better.

At that moment, I realized that I needed to learn how to give and receive pleasure from penetration. That experience changed my life forever. Since then, I’ve always been curious about this kind of sexual activity. But until now, no one had ever explained it in a simple manner to me.

So here goes…

What Is Anal Fisting?

Anal fisting is when someone puts their hand all the way in your butt (yup, literally a whole hand). It’s often a big squishy mess that feels really good.

Ever had someone really cram their whole fist into your pooper?

If you have you know that it is one of the most intense and pleasurable experiences ever! There are many things one can do with an entire hand inside your body.

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